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How To Help Someone Who Is Bedbound / Bedridden

Written by Dr Shara Cohen on 
3rd August, 2024
Last revised by: Cancer Care Parcel
Updated: 14th November, 2025
Estimated Reading Time: 7 minutes

Comprehensive guide to caring for bedridden loved ones. Learn how to prevent complications, ensure comfort, and maintain hygiene with practical tips.

Understanding the Terminology: Bedbound vs. Bedridden

Before diving into how to care for someone who is bedridden, it's important to clarify the terminology. The term "bedbound" refers to anyone who is unable to leave their bed for any reason. For instance, someone emotionally devastated after a breakup might stay in bed for days, making them temporarily bedbound. In contrast, "bedridden" is a more severe condition where a person physically cannot leave their bed due to illness, weakness, or disability. Bedridden individuals are confined to their beds and often require comprehensive care to manage their needs.

Complications of Being Bedridden and How to Overcome Them

Being confined to bed for extended periods can lead to numerous health complications. However, many of these issues can be mitigated with proper care and attention. Below are some common complications and tips on how to address them:

Pressure Sores (Bedsores)

Pressure sores, also known as bedsores, occur in areas of the skin subjected to prolonged pressure. These ulcers can become serious, particularly in individuals who are frail, have poor circulation, or suffer from conditions like diabetes.

Common Areas for Bedsores:

  • Buttocks (tailbone or hips)
  • Heels
  • Shoulder blades
  • Back of the head
  • Backs and sides of the knees

Symptoms of Bedsores:

  • Stage 1: Reddened, warm areas that may burn, hurt, or itch.
  • Stage 2: Open sores, blisters, or scrapes with significant pain.
  • Stage 3: Crater-like wounds.
  • Stage 4: Large, deep wounds with severe tissue damage.

Prevention Tips:

  • Reposition the patient every two hours.
  • Use soft padding in beds and wheelchairs.
  • Maintain good skincare routines and nutrition.
  • Inspect the skin daily for signs of redness or irritation.

Weak Bones and Muscles

Prolonged bed rest can lead to bone loss and weakened muscles, particularly in bedbound patients. Weight-bearing exercises or brief intervals of activity can help maintain bone density. Even for otherwise healthy individuals, it's possible to regain lost bone mass after a period of immobilization by resuming regular activities.

Back Pain

Staying in one position for too long can cause significant back pain due to pressure on the spine. Frequent repositioning is key to preventing this discomfort.

Blood Clots

Immobility increases the risk of blood clots, particularly in the lower extremities. Encouraging small movements and considering compression socks can help reduce this risk.

Constipation

Constipation is common in bedridden patients but can often be managed by increasing dietary fiber and fluid intake.

Sleep Problems

Sleep problems are common because bedridden patients

  • may adopt an irregular sleeping schedule
  • aren’t getting physical exercise
  • are feeling pain from lying in uncomfortable positions too long.

A regular sleep schedule, use active and passive exercises daily and make sure the person is sleeping in comfortable and varied positions helps

Loss of Appetite

Bedridden patients may feel listless and lose their appetites. Or, they may not be as hungry because they are not using as much physical energy - or they may even have apprehensions about toileting that make them refuse food.

They may have lost interest in food because they are bored or lack stimulation.

Keeping alert and engaged in a variety of activities can help them be more interested in food, but this is tricky one and it is important to first understand why the person is not eating. Once this is discovered there may be a simple solution, so gentle probe your friend or loved one to see if you can figure out what the problem is.

Mental Health Issues

Being confined to bed can result in a person remaining passive and withdrawn. Bedridden patients can become depressed because they feel like they are a burden, or because they have lost autonomy, or because social interactions are limited. It’s important to address emotional and mental health needs and to help patients know they are still a part of their communities.

Bedsore prevention Tips

Practical Risks and Safety Considerations

Beyond health concerns, there are practical risks to consider for bedridden individuals. For example, in case of a fire, their immobility could pose a significant danger. Regularly assessing their living environment for potential hazards, such as the risk of falls or other accidents, is crucial. You might also want to consult a professional to evaluate their space and make necessary adjustments.

Hygiene Tips for Bedbound Individuals

Maintaining good hygiene is vital for overall health and comfort. Here's how to ensure proper hygiene for someone who is bedridden:

Bathing

If a patient is unable to bathe themselves, a loved one or carer may need to give them regular bed baths.

Items needed for a bed bath

  • Bath towels, facecloths, and hand towels
  • Soft sponges
  • A bucket of warm water
  • Gentle, non-irritating soap
  • A washbasin
  • Cotton buds or a nail brush
  • Moisturizer
  • Body powder (optional)

How to do a bed bath for an immobile bedbound patient

  1. Dry the patient then change them into a clean set of clothes.
  2. Use a moist hand towel or sponge to wash the eyes and face (as gently as possible). You don't need to use soap on the face and it may be best to avoid it because it might irritate.
  3. Roll down the sheet or blanket so that you can see their upper body only. It is best to only expose the part of the body that you’re actively cleaning and to keep the rest of the body covered (for warmth and modesty).
  4. Use a fresh moist towel or sponge to clean and care for the upper body. A gentle cleansing soap is best and even these can irritate some people, so it's best to check that the soap you are using is familiar to them and OK to use.
  5. Clean their upper body and arms. You could also expose just the legs and lean them at this point.
  6. Clean under and around their fingernails (cotton buds or nail brushes are best for this).
  7. Help them roll or turn as needed. They will need to move so you can thoroughly clean the patient’s back.
  8. Clean their genitals and buttocks area with a fresh moist towel or sponge. Make sure to clean within any folds
  9. Ensure that you dry all areas thoroughly, including in between folds of skin.
  10. Dip the bedbound patient’s feet in a washbasin and clean feet with a towel or sponge, then dry.
  11. Use a gentle fragrance-free moisturizer and body powder to keep the skin hydrated and to soothe dry or itchy patches.
  12. Dry the patient then change them into a clean set of clothes.

Hair Care

In addition to bathing, it’s a good practice to regularly wash their hair.

In between washes, they could use dry shampoo as needed to keep hair from getting greasy and uncomfortable. And try to do a thorough wash at least once a week, or more often if their hair gets especially grimy.

How to wash hair in bed

  1. When all the hair is clean, wrap their head in a dry towel. Then, use a hairdryer to gently dry their hair.
  2. Place towels under the head and shoulders.
  3. Comb through hair to remove tangles and drape another towel over their shoulders. You could also use a hair stylist’s cape or something similar.
  4. If there is alot of hair, it can be easier to clip their hair into sections. Then, use a spray bottle to wet the hair with warm water and a small amount of shampoo. Work it in from the scalp upwards to the ends of the hair. Then, rinse the hair with a separate spray bottle of water.
Hair Care for Bedridden Patients

Nail Care

Long and/or jagged nails can present a multitude of health risks.

Dirt and bacteria get trapped under the nails and transfer to the skin when the patient touches or scratches themselves, potentially resulting in infection.

Regularly use a pair of nail clippers and nail files to keep nails trimmed and filed into a smooth, rounded shape.

Changing Bedding

Change bedding frequently to maintain cleanliness and prevent skin irritation.

Oral Hygiene

Assist with brushing teeth after meals, and ensure flossing and rinsing are done twice daily if possible.

Maintaining a Clean Environment

A dirty environment is a hygiene risk and a messy environment can have a negative impact on someone’s mental and emotional well-being. You could help by keeping their room comfortable and organized and remove clutter from the floor.

Plenty of natural light in the room can help and you may want to regularly open the windows when possible (and when you have permission) to keep the air fresh.

Thoughtful Gifts for Bedridden Loved Ones

If you're looking for ways to brighten the day of a bedridden loved one, consider thoughtful gifts designed for those on bed rest. From comfortable pillows and soft blankets to engaging books or puzzles, there are many ways to show you care.

What are the most common complications faced by bedridden patients?

Bedridden patients often face complications such as pressure sores, weak muscles, blood clots, constipation, and sleep problems. Preventative measures include regular repositioning, good nutrition, and maintaining a clean environment.

How can I prevent bedsores in a bedridden loved one?

With some simple movement, good nutrition, and skincare, bedsores can usually be avoided. Here are some things to do to avoid getting bedsores or to stop them from getting worse.

*Not staying in the same position but turning and repositioning every 2 hours
*Sitting upright and straight in a wheelchair, changing position every 15 minutes
*Have soft padding in wheelchairs and beds to reduce pressure
*Get good skin care products and a good skin care routine, keep the skin clean and dry
*Providing good nutrition because without enough calories, vitamins, minerals, fluids, and protein, bed sores can’t heal.
*Inspect the skin for areas of redness (the first sign of skin breakdown) every day. 

How can I help a bedridden person maintain good hygiene?

Good hygiene for bedridden individuals includes regular bed baths, hair washing, nail trimming, frequent bedding changes, and assisting with oral care after meals. Keeping the environment clean is also essential.

What can I do to improve the mental health of a bedridden loved one?

To support mental health, keep your loved one engaged in social activities, offer emotional support, and help them stay connected with their community. Address any feelings of isolation or depression they may experience.

How can I help a bedridden person regain their appetite?

To help regain appetite, keep the person engaged in activities, offer a variety of foods, and address any underlying concerns about toileting or other issues that may be causing them to refuse food.

Final Thoughts

Caring for someone who is bedridden requires patience, understanding, and a willingness to address both their physical and emotional needs. By following the tips outlined in this guide, you can help ensure that your loved one remains as comfortable and healthy as possible during this challenging time. If you have any additional suggestions or experiences, we would love to hear from you.lped. Please do let us know what you think and if you have anything to add.

Written by Dr Shara Cohen

With over 30 years of experience in medical research, business, and patient advocacy, Shara combines her scientific expertise with deep empathy to create thoughtful care packages and educational resources that address the emotional and physical challenges of cancer.


Before founding Cancer Care Parcel, Shara built a distinguished career as a biomedical scientist and entrepreneur, publishing extensively and leading successful ventures in life sciences communication and community engagement. Recognised with the British Empire Medal (BEM) for her services to cancer patients and women in STEM, she continues to champion awareness, dignity, and compassion in cancer care—ensuring that no one feels forgotten during or after treatment.

We strongly advise you to talk with a health care professional about specific medical conditions and treatments.
The information on our site is meant to be helpful and educational but is not a substitute for medical advice.

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