An Inspiring Story Of Resilience, Strength, And Hope In Overcoming Life's Unexpected Challenges.
For Everyone Touched By Cancer
Cancer Can Be a Catalyst for Life Change" is an inspiring and deeply personal story about how a cancer diagnosis can transform your life in unexpected ways. It begins with the shocking news of an aggressive neuroendocrine carcinoma of the frontal sinus and a grim prognosis. However, amidst the despair, a specialist offers a glimmer of hope with a curative treatment plan, setting the stage for a year of chemotherapy, radiation, and surgeries. That was only the beginning of the journey.
The article dives into the profound physical and emotional changes that follow treatment, revealing how altered priorities and the quest for self-discovery become central themes. It underscores the importance of embracing change, finding support, and seeking new meaning in life. This compelling narrative doesn't just recount survival but also the powerful transformation that follows. The journey ultimately leads to writing a book, offering insights and experiences to guide others navigating life after cancer. This story is a must-read for anyone looking for inspiration and practical advice on thriving beyond cancer.
“You have cancer.”
I was still in a fog from the anaesthesia. I touched the top of my head and felt hair where I expected bandages from the craniotomy to remove the infection that had filled my frontal sinus. I barely remembered the earlier discussion with the neurosurgeon and the ear nose and throat doctor where they talked about doing a biopsy before performing the procedure to confirm a diagnosis of a sinus infection that was out of control.
And suddenly, it all came into laser-sharp focus. I have cancer.
As the weeks sped past, I saw countless specialists. This tumor was unusual in how it presented. My biopsy specimens were sent to Mayo Clinic. I had PET scans, MRIs, and so many blood tests.
A week later, my oncologist shared the grim news. It was a very aggressive form of neuroendocrine carcinoma of the frontal sinus. It had features that made it extremely susceptible to radiation and chemotherapy. But those same features meant that it would return soon after treatment stopped. It would be resected, and the medical team would then do what they could to make me comfortable during the time I had remaining.
This news washed over me and I reeled. I would leave my wife widowed. I would be lucky to see my children finish high school.
We sought second and third opinions. We consulted with one of the top head-and-neck surgeons in the country. He refused to treat me. Desperate for answers, I asked him what I should do. He looked me in the eye with sadness and suggested that I spend as much time with my family as I can.
Through the efforts of some amazing friends, we found an expert in my particular cancer and its presentation. He devised a protocol and he said the most wonderful words in the English language to me - curative intent.
That was eight years, radiation, chemotherapy, and multiple surgeries ago. At the time, I didn’t know that this was just the start of my journey.
Cancer changes you both physically and mentally. After that year of treatment, I did not look the same. My hair was gone and I had radiation burns on my face and forehead. My feet and hands tingled all the time. I had gained close to a hundred extra pounds.I felt like I was 80 years old! And for the first time in over a year, I had to face the many emotions that were forced deep down because I was completely focused on making it through treatment. My support system had dissolved as I was now healthy. I had to have scans every few months but I was in recovery and everyone’s life, including mine, goes on.
Except, I was back in charge of my life. I had changed, what I value had changed. And I didn’t know what it all meant, yet.
Life after cancer may reshape your priorities. Embrace the evolution of these priorities, recognizing that they are reflections of your growth and changing perspectives. Allow your new priorities to align with your values and aspirations.
Life after having cancer may bring shifts in health, relationships, or priorities. Approach these changes with a willingness to adjust, recognizing that adaptability is a powerful tool for navigating the twists and turns of your unique journey.
Change also opens doors to new possibilities. Stay open to exploring uncharted territories—whether it's trying new activities, forging new connections, or revisiting long-held dreams. This journey is an opportunity to rediscover passions and unearth aspects of yourself waiting to be revealed.
Navigating change is easier with a support system. Stay connected with friends, family, or fellow survivors who understand the nuances of your journey. Share your experiences, fears, and triumphs, creating a network that provides strength and encouragement in times of change.
Surviving cancer is a monumental experience that reshapes the very fabric of your existence. It's a journey marked by resilience, courage, and a newfound perspective on life. As the memories of treatment fade away, a new chapter begins—one that invites a pragmatic approach to rebuilding, rediscovery, and intentional living.
Most of that eight years after treatment was spent figuring out who I am now. I am healthier and happier than I ever was pre-cancer. I fumbled around a lot because, while there were so many resources out there, there was no real roadmap for how to start addressing the physical, mental, and personal changes that accompany having survived cancer and rebuilding your life.
So I wrote the book that I wanted to read at that point in my life with the hope that my experiences can help others on the same path to recovery. The book provides tips and reflections on staying healthy, finding the meaning of the cancer experience for yourself, and dealing with the fears and even the guilt that are parts of cancer survival. Also, treating yourself with kindness as you begin to process this part of your life.
This book is a practical ally for those ready to roll up their sleeves and rebuild. "Beyond Cancer" invites you to examine your priorities, rediscover your passions, and intentionally shape a future marked by strength, purpose, and a pragmatic mindset.
The journey doesn't end with survival—it transforms into the art of thriving.
Orrin Matthews, 2 times cancer survivor
Orrin Matthews is a 2 times cancer survivor, engineer, musician, and writer based in Chicago, IL. He created this article to share his journey with the hope of helping others who are going through a similar experience.
His book, Beyond Cancer: A Practical Guide to Rebuilding and Living with Purpose can be found here.
