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For Everyone Touched By Cancer

My Name Is Stuart Ross And This Is The Story About My Balls.

Written by Stuart Ross on 
25th February, 2021
Updated: 11th March, 2023
Estimated Reading Time: 3 minutes

One January evening I noticed something odd and hard in one of my balls.

But, it didn’t worry me. I thought nothing of it. I thought it would just go away with time – like most things do. But it didn’t. However, I came to the medical assessment that is was cyst. Again, it will go away with time. I was 23, playing Australian rules football, just moved out of home and was loving hanging out with my mates. I certainly did not have time for any medical worries or seeing my doctor.  

Later, one evening, a lady friend also noticed the lump in my balls. She mentioned it might be a good idea to get it checked. I said I would get it check - but later.

After Cancer In My Balls  I Started An Ngo , So We Do Put Our Hands In Our Pants, Check For Irregularities And Act Upon Them.

A month past and this odd, hard irregularity in my balls, hadn’t gone away.

Now I was concerned. I spoke to one of my mates. My mate told me to get it checked – people seemed obsessed with this idea.  I said I would, but of course I didn’t. I waited a little longer. At this point, I started to get pain in my abdominal region. Nevertheless, I put it down to the impressive number of sit-ups I was doing at the gym.

One morning I woke up and my nut was the size of an orange!

I raced down to talk to my dad, he said, “mate, get that checked. Now!”. Time to get it checked! The hard irregularity was a tumor, a big black mass that had engulfed my testicle. I had to have the testicle removed and went through radiotherapy.

My doctors – yep, in plural – tried to comfort me. They told me

If you get cancer, this is the cancer you want to get.

Referring to it as a good cancer. There is no good cancer. A mate of mine, told me, it was lucky, it was me who got it, because I was so strong – whatever that means.

I went through months of hell, lost my identity, self-esteem and questioned myself in every way possible.

There Is No Good Cancer

I sat on the radiotherapy table, not the doctors nor my mates.

I tried to go back and play football four weeks after my last radiotherapy session. That was a huge mistake. I was not emotionally or physically ready for football. Or anything else for that matter. I tried to find myself, convince people I was the old Stuey, but I’d lost myself. It took over 18 months to find myself again, but I did.

Testicular cancer is still a f***ing cancer. It is not “the good cancer”. There is no good cancer. That is what I’m here to change.

This bloke was me, Stuey, and I want lads to touch their balls, to understand what they’re looking for, so that if you find those small irregularities, you go to the doctor to get it checked!

Put your Hands In Your Pants.

That’s why I started an NGO, with two mates, called Hands In Your Pants, so we do put our hands in our pants, check for irregularities and act upon them.

Further reading

Moving Beyond the Fear: Learning to be Part of the Cancer Community

Gifts For People With Prostate Cancer

What To Expect From Radiotherapy Therapy And How To Take Care

Early Detection Is Key To Prostate Cancer Survival

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